Can you have a real relationship without benefits?
What is a relationship without benefits! All relationships are involved in some type of exchange not for materials, though there are some digger out there (notice how I didn't specify a sex there.) Google Exchange Theory. (This is how my mind works)
Its the process of negotiated exchanges between parties. Social exchange theory explains that all human relationships are formed by the use of a subjective cost-benefit analysis and the comparison of alternatives. For example, when a person sees the costs of the relationship as outweighing the perceived benefits, then the theory predicts that the person will choose to leave the relationship.
Or you can look at it in the hood version of Karl Marx:
We live in a pimps and hoes society.Theres the pimp who benefits and the hoe who puts in work. The thing is the pimp has to work his hoe to get his $$$. Therefore you both pay. Your paying for it in some way theres an exchange occuring, people think about it.
You learned to social theories today but the real question is
Are you being pimped or are you be fucked?
There's a difference...
2 comments:
I like that "Are you being pimped or are you being fucked?" I did the "relationship" thats really not a relationship but with the benifits and its just a way for that person to not want to be in a commitment. Most likey their is one person that suggest "Im not ready for a relationship!" I thought when i was in that situation, i was just being fucked. I dont do anything benifical for that person because im NOT their girl!
i am DEFINITELY being fucked
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